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The need to be right: symptoms, causes, and the path to freedom
"Rightness Syndrome" (sometimes called "the need to be right" ) is a common behavioural pattern in which a person feels an intense, almost compulsive need to have their perspective validated as the "correct" one. Also, they usually get very angry if things don’t go their way. For example, consider two coworkers planning a meeting. One insists his agenda is the only effective approach, dismisses alternatives, and becomes frustrated when others suggest changes. Such scenarios


Mastering your well-being: the power of a daily self-care system
In today’s fast-paced world, it is easy to put our own well-being on the back burner. However, self-care is not a luxury—it is an essential practice for recognising your needs and intentionally making space to nurture your physical, emotional, and mental health. The ultimate goal of a self-care system is to help you manage stress, lower the risk of illness, and ensure you spend time on activities that make you feel happy and healthy. Think of yourself as a battery; without a


The four types of intelligence: why success requires more than a high IQ
Success isn’t built on IQ alone. Emotional intelligence, social connection, and resilience shape who we become and how we navigate the world.
Discover the four types of intelligence that truly matter.


Adjunctive EMDR therapy
Adjunctive therapy is a form of treatment that complements a primary therapy to enhance its overall effectiveness. While adjunctive...


EMDR and emotional dysregulation
EMDR ( Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing ) is a powerful therapeutic approach originally developed to treat trauma, but it’s...


ACC Sensitive Claims Counselling
Experiencing sexual abuse or assault can result in profound emotional trauma. In New Zealand, the Accident Compensation Corporation (ACC)...


Birth Story
Writing your child’s birth story is more than just recording an event—it’s a celebration of life, love, and new beginnings. Whether detailed or simple, personal or shared, your words will stand as a timeless testament to one of the most important days of your life.


How to properly set priorities in life
What are your priorities in life? How do you rank your life priorities? How do you determine what is more important? Are you living...


Family well-being checklist
Family well-being checklist.


My approach to Counselling and Therapy
I help people focus on the reality of their current situation, and take responsibility for improvements and changes. I do not spend much...
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